by Durhamfootman » Thu Apr 16, 2026 8:45 pm
Well, it shouldn't be that hard, should it?
There was a period in football when players would surround and jostle referees. It was all pretty shameful and if I had to make a guess I'd suggest that this perhaps helped undermine the player/ref relationship, if indeed it needed further undermining. You're right, I think, the refs don't talk and the players don't listen and the whole fabric of football is reliant upon a level of mutual respect that simply isn't there
When footballers earn staggering amounts of money and refs don't, it's hard to see what incentive there is for players, particularly young players, to respect the authority of referees. This is further exacerbated by a football administration that is inherently weak at its core. When they tried to introduce the rugby 10m rule into football to try and cut all that crap out, the first time a ref picked the ball up and moved it 10 yards forward for a free kick, the whole world erupted in a media fuelled outrage bus extravaganza and the rest of the refereeing fraternity thought "sod that" and made damned sure that none of that vitriol was sprayed their way. The policy very quickly died, because the refs were basically hung out to dry by the football authorities, who pretty much kept their own heads down because they didn't want all that flack either
I still remember with great fondness the moment that Klopp, in trying to chase down a referee who'd awarded a decision he didn't like, so that he could launch into a tirade of abuse.... tore a hamstring in the process and had to be helped off. If managers do that sort of stuff, why wouldn't their players? It's a side to football that I've always hated
And to top it all off, one of the few referees who did seem to earn the respect of players, managers, media and all, now wants to have World cup games endlessly stopped while every corner is checked to see if the decision was correct.... and they accuse players of time wasting! You couldn't *modded* make it up really
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